Dirty Talk Up!
The feisty factor with four-letter words and other naughty no-nos.
Mike R. Manzano/Redbook
I didn’t tell my boyfriend about this little experiment ahead of time. Instead, when we’d already started going at it, I began using dirty, sexy words to describe how he looked and how I was feeling. The freedom of expression heated up our usual routine, and I loved seeing his reaction. We giggled a bit, but it helped that we are totally comfortable with each other. I’d recommend this to anyone couple looking for a little friskiness, though keep it real by using words that feel like you, rather than an over-the-top porn star.
This was very sexy, especially because my girlfriend sprung it on me spontaneously. It was great to get feedback, and the fantasy element made the whole thing seem like a hot porn movie.
Tester Rating: 3/5
When I initiated talking dirty, at first there was a bit of giggling, but it ended up being a lot of fun. Safely exploring with each other was a great comfort. It felt best when we were conjuring up new places and situations—I especially loved hearing his ideas! It seemed best to do this totally spontaneously, so that it was light and fun. It made us feel closer.
Talking dirty felt like a great way to stay in the moment and intensify the action. I loved it how even when I said just a few things, it drove my girlfriend crazy in a good way!
Tester Rating: 5/5